Sex in Business
- Kateryna Derkach
- Jul 15, 2024
- 6 min read
Have you ever wondered how exactly you use your sexual energy in business affairs?
We live in a world of endless taboos about many different things. When those taboos involve the most basic characteristics and aspects of who we are and how our shared reality works, our relationships and even our lives can become very confusing, painful, and potentially very strange.
One of the most devastating taboos and its very sad consequences revolve around our sexual energy and the processes of co-creation (or sex).
Our sexual immaturity and our incapacity to talk about it create a context for all kinds of sexual abuses. This is true in all kinds of relationships and every environment. You can assault and abuse someone with your sexual energy without even being in the same country or knowing each other personally.
This is how powerful this energy is and why it should be taken very seriously. This is also why we should take full responsibility for the energy coming from our sexual center in all aspects of our lives: with our families, with our friends, with our business partners and clients, or pretty much everyone we meet on our endless path of evolution.
But before we can take on the responsibility of our authentic creative-sexual energy, we need to understand how exactly we use it already and where we might be hurting people around us with our creative potential without even realizing it.
Misunderstanding how our sexual energy works and what it does is responsible for many disturbing issues and challenges at the collective level of our reality.
Porn addiction, pedophilia, and all other forms of sexual abuses, sex cults, all kinds of sexually-related mental disorders and distortions of reality, emotional and hormonal instability and dysregulations, and many more can be linked to the fact that we are dangerously immature and naive as a society when we play with our own fire of sexual energy in a deeply unconscious way with each other.
There is so much to say about sex. So much should be said about sex. It's literally everywhere. The only real process in this reality is co-creation, which is a form of sex!
The more mature we become about what we are creating with our unlimited power of sexual energy, the more coherence, meaning, and peace we can generate together.
For what follows, we will be exploring sexual energy mainly in business. The hypothesis is that there is no actual sexual intercourse between people in this context, but they do engage in a powerful form of co-creation where they use their sexual energy and its unlimited potential to manifest something together in the physical matrix of our shared reality.
What happens when business partners make 'love' to each other coherently to co-create beautiful, powerful, and fully embodied projects, initiatives, movements, and organizations?
Magic happens.
When you know how to coherently and skillfully distribute your sexual energy among various projects you are working on (and the people around you know how to do the same), you can literally change the world by working together. The more you master this energy in yourself and in your relationships with others, the more you can co-create whatever you want in this world with them.
And no, you don't need to 'sleep' with them to make it happen!
But you do need to heal your sexual and birth-related trauma to fully understand what I mean and how you can use your sex and its authentic potential with real pleasure and responsibility to build the life you truly desire and want.
If your trauma is not yet fully digested and reintegrated into your personal system, you will still use your sexual energy to manifest your own life and reality, but you might do it in a completely unconscious and very painful way for yourself. Or you might severely abuse people you love and care for without even realizing how or why you did it.
If you think you don't use any sexual energy in your job or career, you are either very unhappy with what you do or you are not very self-aware.
Without realizing it, you might be energetically 'fucking' your entire team and being severely 'fucked' by your own clients or investors, but you can continue to pretend that this has absolutely nothing to do with how you use your personal sexual energy in your business or job.
This has everything to do with the process of sexual co-creation with everything else and the level of your mature mastery over it with respect and compassion for others.
If you really don't use any of your sexual energy at work, then you are probably not contributing much in terms of authentic creation to our collective field of reality either. You are more like a vegetable in your work environment. People don't really know or care if you are there or not. And if that work environment does not make you depressed as hell, please tell me what kind of drugs you are on.
Creation without sexual energy is impossible.
If you don't co-create anything with your sexual energy through all kinds of relationships in your daily life, you most likely have no idea what actual Life is or how it works. You will be living on repeat, the loop of your own suffering and self-denial if you think sexual energy is not mandatory to build meaningful relationships with others.
Each day will be the same and more and more boring to you. You will lack money, stability, trust, and actual authentic relationships and deep intimacy. And you will never even suspect that the real issue with your life dissatisfaction is the fact that you have no idea how to make love coherently to everything else around you. You probably don't know how to use the creative energy from your sexual energy center to manifest the life your heart knows is possible in physical form.
Because you are too scared, ashamed, and selfish about how you share your sexual energy with the entire field, you will create a lot of distortions and confusions in all of your relationships and social systems you are a part of. And if this is your case, I have no idea how you will manage to become successful in your business at the level you truly desire and are worthy of.
Innovation, creativity, and even collective consciousness evolution are all performed through the medium of sexual energy. Because sexual energy is the energy of creation, embodiment, and authentic manifestation.
To dream, to believe, to have faith, to imagine, and to play with your own self-created illusions, sex is not required. You can indeed do all of that in your third eye and in your heart. But if you want to actually experience with your body and with your senses the reality you dream of inside yourself, you need to co-create it with others and you need your sexual energy to do that!
Some people with high-libido or with uncontrolled sexual hunger are just not yet aware of how to channel their creative energy differently than through sex.
And honestly, we cannot blame them for that. How were they supposed to learn to do it differently?
We live in a society where we collectively seem to not understand the real power and purpose of our sexual energies. We devalue and even judge creativity and its free expression since primary school. We shame and give tranquilizers to kids who have strong needs to express themselves more creatively in the world. We don't create spaces for authentic pleasure and safe play where kids can explore freely what it means to master creative energy without creating a strong connection to sex itself.
They are disconnected from their creative energetic center from a very young age, mainly because of how the education system works or what it values, and also because of how much sex is a taboo in the community where they grew up.
If a child has a need to express something creatively, but they don't have the space, support, and tools to do that, they will most likely search for other strategies to externalize their creative energy elsewhere.
The most repressed types will often become some form of addicts and not express themselves creatively anymore (or sexually later in their life). They will be deeply scared of creative and sexual energy they feel from others and would prefer to isolate and become asexual monks rather than play the game of collective co-creation of our shared reality with others.
The rebels of the system, on the other hand, will find ways to use and express their sexual energy in other more socially acceptable and less-judgmental ways. Some rebels will learn how to do this without needing to fuck everything that moves. This is where we can actually talk about true leadership and next-level innovative businesses and even social movements.
But many will not know how to channel their creative energy without actual sex. This is where we open the door to all the possible and even impossible sexual abuses and pathologies that can destroy our relationships and even our business projects.
Immature and incoherent use of sexual energy in the system might be the first factor responsible for the deep polarization in this world and the profound nonsense of the current collective co-creation process of our shared reality.
