EMOTIONAL HEALTH SYSTEM
- Kateryna Derkach
- Jul 3
- 8 min read
We have the body health system
We have the mind health system
Where exactly is hidden and why
The health system of emotional heart
It sounds like such a naive question
But take a moment to contemplate
And tell me frankly, where do you go
When it's your emotions that are sick
When everything seems perfect
With your amazing body and mind
But this energetic core in your chest
Is yelling, screaming, crying from pain
What kind of clinic or hospital do you call
How much will those services cost you
Do you have access to the resources
To properly take care of your emotions
Or maybe drugs are cheaper, simpler
Maybe pornography is easier, faster
Maybe over-abusing, over-something
Is way more efficient in our modern world
There are 6 to 12 months waiting lists
For poor people who need some love
Who need to be listened to with heart
Who need to be held in compassion
It costs you more to see a proper therapist
Than to buy a few pounds of very legal pills
It is less weird and more socially accepted
To be a complete addict than to simply talk
But you have access to nasty drugs
Both legal and illegal, almost instantly
Apparently, there is not enough kindness
To take care of suffering humans simply
Don't you find this incoherent
Don't you think it's very weird
Doesn't this make you angry
Don't you feel sad, powerless
Most of the "insane" and "crazy"
Are just deeply suffering beings
Their real problem is not mental
It's their soul that needs healing
But they have nowhere to go, no one
The only systems who seem to get it
Are criminals, dealers and prostitutes
They know how to provide some "love"
Our nurses don't have 5 minutes extra
To reassure, to validate, just to be there
Our doctors are too important and busy
To take proper time to examine a patient
We take some guesses, and we observe
We do very scientific experimentation
We give some pills we call medicine
And we see if this gets better, or not
Because everyone already knows
Each body is uniquely mysterious
To know exactly what doesn't work
Takes a lot of patience, rest and time
But who has any of that to spend
Who has some extra time to rest
Who has sufficient budget to heal
Who has access to some patience
What do you mean "quality vacations"
Have you seen my urgent missed calls
Have you seen 286 unread notifications
I got in emails since I woke this morning
I don't have time to take proper care
Of my needs, health and happiness
Because I am saving the entire world
With my very super sustainable job
A job that makes me take airplanes often
Almost every week to have some meetings
Where we are all jet lagged, tired, stressed
Deciding on how to make airplanes greener
And no one seems to be able to realize
That if all of us took fewer business trips
To other continents just for a meeting
We would not need to talk about "green"
When you tell them that their airplanes
Are polluting air, water, soil and nature
They answer you that it doesn't matter
Because airplanes can bring medicine
In some contexts and in some situations
Airplanes indeed can save lives, be useful
They have many beautiful social benefits
But it's still not an excuse for a private jet
It's not because your salary and wealth
Is higher than the GDP of your country
That you should be entitled to just burn
Hundreds of barrels of oil per hour of flight
It's not because you are a celebrity
That you need thousands of tonnes
Of hardcore metal just for yourself
To fly over the ocean comfortably
Per hour of flight on the private jet
You emit between 2 to 8 tonnes of CO2
I am not sure you realize what this means
Most humans don't spend this in a year
I get it, you are super rich now, so why not
But do you realize that we need a new mine
Just to sustain your way of living, working
We could save a forest if you flew like others
Your super sustainable diet or whatever
Is completely useless and just hypocritical
You could feed and educate an entire village
With your "travelling expenses" budget line
How do you even take yourself seriously
Talking about "sustainable development"
In a luxury 5-star hotel conference ballroom
Where you drink fancy wine on public expenses
You ask for money from public sources, people
You use natural resources for almost free
You cut the salaries of the employees
But you still have your unlimited fun
Here's what they don't want you to see
The connection between both these crimes
The lack of proper emotional health infrastructure
Creates the very leaders who extinguish our humanity
When a human being is emotionally sick, hurt
But has nowhere to go for healing or numbing
They compensate with power, money, status
They consume the world to fill the inner void
The billionaire flying private jets for nothing
Is the same child who never learned to cry
Who never had someone hold their pain
Who never learned that they were enough
The CEO cutting workers' salaries
Is the same teenager who was told
That feelings are weakness, love is naive
That only winners deserve to be heard, to rule
The politician lying to the public
Is the same person who learned early
That truth is dangerous, vulnerability kills
That manipulation is the only way to survive
You think these are separate problems
Personal healing and planetary destruction
But they're the same wound expressing
In individual shapes and collective forms
The outer pollution is inner pollution
The environmental crisis is emotional crisis
The climate emergency is the urgency
Of hearts that have never learned to love
When you can't feel your own raw pain
You become numb to others' suffering
When you can't cry for your own losses
You can't cry sorrow for the dying forests
When you're addicted to avoiding feelings
You become addicted to avoiding the truth
When you're terrified of your own darkness
You project it onto the entire world to feel it
But here's the part they don't want you to know
Every time you heal your own emotional wounds
You're literally healing the collective unconscious
You're withdrawing your vote for our global insanity
Every time you choose to feel instead of numbing
You're choosing life over death, you can transform
Every time you choose presence over productivity
You're choosing wise sanity over clever madness
Every time you choose connection over consumption
You're starving the system that feeds on corruption
Every time you choose enough or less over more
You're disrupting the entire engine of destruction
The true reason there's no emotional health system
Is because emotional health threatens their dream
That makes money in our current economy scheme
Healthy people don't become very naive consumers
People who know inside they're already whole
Don't buy products promising completion
People who can feel their own pain
Don't need to inflict it on others
People who can sit with their emotions
Don't need endless boring distractions
People who can love themselves truly
Don't need to dominate anything else
So, they keep us sick, keep us super busy
Keep us numb, keep us shopping, eating
Keep us competing, keep us consuming
Keep us believing we're not enough as is
But what if we created healing centers
On every corner instead of Starbucks
What if we had emotional support
As accessible as physical first aid
What if children learned to feel the heart
Before they learned to perform the mind
What if we taught real emotional literacy
Before we taught them to nicely compete
What if we had human grief counselors
In every school, every workplace
What if we had anger workshops
Instead of anger management of denial
What if we had fear integration sessions
Instead of fear suppression techniques
What if we had shame healing circles
Instead of shame-based motivation
What if we had normal love practices
That didn't require buying anything
What if we had joy and bliss cultivation
That didn't depend on achieving something
What if we measured success
By how much we could sense
What if we measured wealth
By how much we could love
What if we measured intelligence
By how much we could integrate
What if we could measure power
By how much we could surrender
Imagine leaders who give wisdom
Who could feel their own suffering
Who could cry for their own losses
Who could love their own shadows
Imagine CEOs who made decisions
From their hearts and not their fears
Who prioritize long-term flourishing
Over short-term superficial profits
Imagine politicians who could admit
When they don't know something
Who could say "I was so wrong"
Without it ending their careers
Imagine a reality where vulnerability
Was considered the highest courage
Where authenticity was the currency
Where love was the greatest success
This is not naive idealism of utopia
This is the most practical solution
To every crisis we're facing currently
From climate change to mental health
The emotional health system we need
Isn't just clinics and healthy therapists
It's a complete cultural transformation
Of how we relate to being human, alive
It's communities where people gather
Not to fix each other, not to save or help
But to witness each other raw and naked
In all their beautiful brokenness of whole
It's workplaces where people can cry
Without being seen as weak, foolish
Where people can express anger
Without being seen as dangerous
It's schools where children can learn
That all emotions are valuable insight
That feelings aren't problems to solve
But allies to listen to more attentively
It's families where parents model
How to be with difficult emotions
How to repair when they mess up
How to love without judgements
It's a society that fully understands
That proper emotional intelligence
Is the foundation of everything else
Including environmental coherence
You want to save our planet, nature
Start by saving your own deep heart
You want to transform our humanity
Start by accepting your own wounds
You want to stop the outer destruction
Stop destroying yourself, your essence
You want to end the viciousness, abuse
End the violence against your own soul
This is the revolution we all need
Not just political or economic
But emotional and logical
A revolution of the heart
And it starts with you dear reader
Taking your own emotional health
As seriously as your physical health
As important as your financial safety
It starts with you demanding hard
Emotional healthcare as a right
Not a privilege for the wealthy
But a necessity for all beings
It starts with you cocreating
The healing spaces you need
Not waiting for some permission
But giving yourself what you deserve
It starts with you fully recognizing
That your deep feelings matter
That your pain is valid, wise
That your healing is sacred
It starts with you understanding
That when you restore yourself
You heal your elders and kids
You reconcile our community
You heal the world
One heart at a time
One feeling per instant
One breath at this moment
The emotional health system
Isn't something we need to build
It's something we need to remember
We are already this system in emergence
We are those healers
We are that medicine
We are our desired star
We've all been waiting for
This magic clinic is wherever you are
This hospital is your own crazy heart
This medicine is your deep presence
This cure is your honest compassion
So, stop waiting for someone else
To create what you need and want
Stop waiting for the outside system
To embrace in love your desires inside
Start being the transformation
You want to see in the world
Try to embody the healing
You deserve to receive
Start being this love
You want to experience
Start being the wholeness
You want us all to remember
The emotional health system
Is not a someday or maybe
It's a right now possibility
It's a you and me reality
And it begins again
With this breath
This moment
This choice
To feel
To share
To cherish
To be whole
Right here
Precisely now
Exactly as you are
Surely how you want
The revolution of my love
Has already begun dancing
In your pretty heart wondering
In your courageous soul dreaming
You dared
To feel it all
And love it all
And integrate it all
Welcome home
To your own heart
Welcome inside you
To your own innocence
Into the pure emergence
You always loved this game
But had numbed my pleasure
In the busyness of your surviving
Welcome to our unknown desires
To the emotional health system
That exists already inside you
Cocreating our becoming
And it is us all, together
And it is everything
We need or want
To simply love
To become
To belong
To dare
To be


