Conscious or Unconscious

Another very interesting polarization is around the concept of consciousness and unconsciousness.

It's funny how people seem to bring the concept of good/bad judgment even here. We must seek to be the most 'conscious' version of ourselves! This is the spiritual duty of humans and the point of our collective evolution.

Is it really? Do we truly need to glorify consciousness and label it as something always good and high-vibe? What exactly happens when you become more 'conscious'? How exactly is your unconsciousness still laughing at you? Or with you? Who knows.

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The point of life is co-creation.

Who is co-creating with whom?

Well, this depends on where you look and how far or deep you want to go.

If you want to go really macro, it's actually Consciousness that co-creates with Unconsciousness.

If you praise only one or the other, if you judge or choose between light and dark, you are not co-creating. You are in your own self-delusion and most likely stuck there.

It takes two to tango.

You cannot win over the unconsciousness. The more conscious you become, the wilder and more powerful your unconsciousness will be. There is also a balance between the two, but it is the unknown that leads the dance.

There is something special about the tango.

Most of the dancing in pairs we know is based on the principle that the man leads the movement. He guides the woman to perform certain steps or moves. She is the follower. She listens with her body and does what her partner wants her to do.

I guess this is why I had so much trouble learning swing, salsa, bachata, and all the rest. It was not even about the dance technique itself (even if I don't have any); I just never knew how to completely surrender and let my partner tell me what to do with my body.

Being led by someone else in dancing made no sense to me.

I recently discovered that tango is actually different. I haven't tried it yet, but it's definitely on my list now. In tango, it is actually the woman who leads and tells her partner with her body how she wants to move. She dictates in very subtle ways to him what to do and how.

Using the metaphor of the tango when talking about consciousness and unconsciousness is actually quite interesting. If you ever polarized it in a yin/yang way, you might consider the conscious as masculine and the unconscious as the feminine principle of your reality.

I believe the real game of co-creation is actually like tango.

Unconsciousness leads the show without us even realizing it. It's subtle but powerful. It's passionate and sensual. It's intense and playful. It's mysterious but very precise and direct.

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To start with, in the game of co-creation, there are three different spaces (or aspects) that need to be properly mastered:

1. The Unconsciousness (the land of the Shadows, aka Hell)

2. The Consciousness (the kingdom of Light, aka Heavens)

3. The Playground (the actual game of Shared Reality, aka the World)

What you need to understand is that there is a sort of 'hierarchy' in this scheme. There is a reason why the unconscious is in the first place on that list.

How well you have integrated space 1 will actually define how skillful you are in space 2. In a way, it is the Unconsciousness that holds the limits of what you consider your consciousness to be.

And how well you can master your consciousness will actually show how good of a player you are in the actual Playground of our shared co-creation process in the real world.

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We also need to properly understand that in this world, there is no such thing as creation or creator.

Nothing is created, nothing is destroyed; everything is transformed...

And everything is transformed through the process of co-creation!

The only real process in this world is co-creation, and you can only have the role of co-creator. And no, there is no such thing as the supreme Creator or Lord; this is simply not how it actually works.

The only thing you do in your daily life is co-create, and it's also the only thing you are doing all day long.

The real question is:

What are you actually co-creating, why, and with whom?

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The level at which you can honor and respect unconditionally your own unconsciousness will actually define the power you have access to on the Playground of our shared reality. If you honor the unconscious much more than the conscious, you will use this power unconsciously and might severely hurt yourself.

If you learn how to master this power consciously with your mind, heart, and body, you will naturally become a conscious and powerful co-creator of your life and our shared reality. This is where you can manifest virtually any of your dreams in a very magical way.

The formula of life is very simple. The rules of how it works are also very simple. Everyone is already playing, and everyone is already a very powerful co-creator. The game has been on for a very long time. Some are just having a lot of fun, and some still seem to suffer deeply.

If there is anything incoherent about your reality now, it is most likely because your balance between how much you love the conscious and the unconscious is off.

If you praise the shadow too much, you become lost in the woods. Your own shadows are making a fancy feast of you. You think you are slowly going to hell, but truly you just see your own face in the reflection of the deep waters of your own soul.

If you praise the light too much, you become confused and actually cruel. This is where the light of your consciousness actually 'destroys' Nature. This is where people who gather around you are not there for you, but for the light you praise. As soon as you show your true face, they all somehow seem to disappear.

When you properly balance your light/dark relationship and make it coherent, you become a wiser and more powerful co-creator.

When you give the keys of your consciousness to the deep Unconscious, you need to also learn how to play the game by its very interesting rules.